Do you live your life or you are just alive creature?

Do you ever feel like you've lost control of your life and the more you try the less achieve your goals? Perhaps it is time to get control of your life and start a new one, instead of running and looking for it. Real understanding of the difference between "to live" and "being alive" seems somewhat difficult, but realize this fact led to dramatic changes in the world around us. Now if you are tired of the existing situation and want to live, we recommend you to define 10 following tips:

1- Remember that life is a gift that is given to you at birth.

Life is all about how you look at it. You can sit back and let the life makes you a loser or stand up and make it with your own hands. Maya Angelou says about it: “Life is like a mother who primps your clothes every morning and says: ‘Do not worry, darling! I'm with you’.”

2- Mean the life for yourself and define your goals in life.

3- State special rules for yourself.

Many people believe that life is a game. Maybe this is true. However, most games have their own rules, and conditions of the winning and losing are specified. We don’t bring with us the rules and conditions of this game to this world, or maybe we are allowed to state this rules ourselves and consider some criteria to survive and live, succeed or fail.

4- Take full responsibility for your life.

Now that you state your own rules, you can take responsibility for your own life. Jeffrey Ebert says: ‘when you are personally responsible for your actions, you don’t need to obtain permission from others to live freely and being freedom. When you allow others to decide for you, in fact you give them your life veto!

5- Don’t consider the details worthless and not be indifferent towards them.

No matter how we live. In this upside-down world, there are countless obstacles in front of us that we oblige to confront them unless our pleasures and moments of happiness expose to serious danger. Stephen Vincent has an interesting interpretation of life: "Life is not lost by dying. We lose it Moment to moment and day to day, while there are thousands of ways head of us that we have not gone through yet. "

6- Leave your bad habits and tasks

Many believe that "leaving" have a negative sense, are you part of this group?
Some people think that successful ones never leave their tasks, but that’s not true, the winners are often to leave things that do not meet their goals and aspirations.

7- Prepare a list of things you're going to leave.

A careful scrutiny of your life, you can see that by doing some activities, your raising path to success would be slow or completely stop and may be cause a negative effect on your other things. Identify these things and put them on paper.

8 –tick the habits and what you have left in your list.

By doing these things in the short term, you will see positive changes in your life that would remove the many negative points. So prepare your environment for a new life and more positive experiences.

9 - Look to the future.

With these changes and create a positive attitude in your life, you have taken a big step into the future; so be provident, optimistic and brave. Certainly, the results will surprise you.

10 - Take advantage of all the facilities of your surroundings.

Do not forget that you are gifted with the talent and skills that no other person have these. So use the all skills and talents in order to have a happy life. Arma Bumbek says: "I wish, when I'm at the end of life in the presence of God, I have used all the talents and facilities given to me, so that I can say to my God: oh God, I used everything you granted me, in the best way!”