I share my joys and sorrows with you

His or her looks become dreamlike and often appears a smile on her or his lips. Alone, there are whispers of love, to see some of the beloved moment, Doing things quickly end,
Sunday, January 3, 2016
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I share my joys and sorrows with you
   I share my joys and sorrows with you

 

Translator: Davood Salehan
Source: Kayhan newspaper







 

What is love?
It seems a very simple question is raised, But is that really so?
We all talk about love; we have read many books about it and the word we use a lot.
When you love someone what changes do occur in his or her behavior?
His or her looks become dreamlike and often appears a smile on her or his lips. Alone, there are whispers of love, to see some of the beloved moment, Doing things quickly end, Takes immediate steps, Pulse beat faster and the acceleration to meet with him. Her eyes shine And Anxiously thinks to Moments with the beloved. But what is love?
Almost more people in response to this question say similar sentences including the<<You dearest person in my heart>>. <<Great value for me>>. <<It is impossible to live without him>>. <<I die if something happens to him>>. <<When I'm with him, I feel good >>But no one says exactly what is love?
Love is a feeling that link the two persons And cannot be described. Lover just thinks about making beloved happy and in deep love. Even for a short time cannot Are far apart. He Forgets and scarifies any other relationship because of his beloved. They ready to die for each other and cases that do have it. Love is an indescribable feeling. You just have to be experienced. Can you explain the taste of sugar to those who have never tasted the sweetness? You never be able. But that person must taste sugar him or herself. Love is also like this, you should fall in love till you understand the meaning of love.
One of the old customs is marriage. It cannot be easily explained how two people Interest to be married. Is it just because they live with each other? Indifferent cultures and religions, marriage is a higher value. In most families at the beginning of marriage, it can be seen beautiful pictures and images of the joy of the wedding night. But after a few years, as if they are less happy, what is the cause of the loss of love? How couples can create a link between their hearts to remain happy forever? How can marriage be converted to a heart transplant? When two people are so close to each other they take care of their partners. Their thoughts and views become the same. They are together in all the sorrows and joys, there is no risk in this family they do not compromise. Life always finds a durable compromise will be pleasure? Pay attention to your family life. Most of them are adapted to each other. Heart transplantation is possible only together. How is your marriage to become a heart transplant? The first step should be hit very clear about everything .Say what you feel to your wife.
(To her to yourself).We all have moments Sit in silence and we screed with each other. We ourselves are transparent. Because they should not be worry about your reaction. We should be like with my wife. Transparency in talking has two interests. <<In terms of awareness wife and your interests and integrity >> When you tell him everything your most important message will be the honesty <<I'm completely trust you>> << I am completely comfortable talking with you. >>
<< I do not hidden anything from you >>what’s your reaction against be transparent, your spouse?
At first may be surprised, but thanks of him. It is thought that the first who talked to me? Secondly, whether the person is more important or what was discussed? Would am I a good judge? Is it just me determine what is good and what is bad? Therefore someone had not to restrain himself or sustain life .With talk will understand each other better .Next step is to respect the other person and his ideas. Of course, if you have a bad feeling It posed With respect and let your spouse be realized That you are interested in some of the affairs changes. Unfortunately, most families are unaware of each other's ideas as long time. They may be able to inhibit both to maintain their life. This life will have not the joy .are we made for each other? A young couple is walking in the park hand in hand. It seems there is a close and friendly relationship between them.
But are they made for each other? When are two persons made for each other?
Should they have the same believes and tastes? Or vice versa as it is said in physics opposite bars attract each other, couples with different believes can love each other? Or the disagreements will fight always?
We can say that is natural disagreements at least in most families. When we said two people made for each other that mean is any person Suitable for else. No one else exists in the world that would be a better husband for his wife like him. They are when together spend the best time with each other and their existence be filled with Joy pleasant. Being same the habits, the type of clothes put on and favorite Weather is not only factors in closer hearts. But love the sake of other, sense of belonging to the body And Spirit and heart And Opposite person’s words, a feeling of deep satisfaction in being with him that shows this two people is made for each other. The main purpose in common life is to be happy opposite person and keep her happy. With attention to the relationship between mother and child we find that they are have created a Strong ring link with each other And no one do not doubt that they were made for each other. If couples also have a link with together they are have a successful life. Did you forget that you were making happy your spouse? My habit in my youth is painting and go to gym; Go to mountain at holidays and etc.
It is still my favorite but after the marriage Because of my wives high occupation and or because of that he is not showed little interest in these matters forget this things this Status damage to many families’ relationships. It is expected that more couples attention to their interests. Unfortunately, many of desires repressed, especially in women in early marriage and that do not let occur and this will undermine family relationships. Of course, men which are satisfy the demands of their wife but those who are autonomous day-to-day make situation more difficult. Of course some of these women foment in issues. And instead of their demands, And instead of Proposed their demands, hide it. They are fear that makes the trouble. But if in the first, talked with their husbands perhaps they found a way to meet their needs. It is obvious that silence is not an appropriate solution. Every human needs to freedom. And must try be used in the restoration. Do you even care what about everything you love? Do you worry about losing what you earn from your beloved? Or are concerned about damage to your lover?
Those who take the care of their love will be successful life. If you really love someone take care of her, because Love mean is caring. How you are in love? Let us take an example: Your wife is a few days come late to home what do you think? Your thoughts about your love have the many responses; do you suspect that he may have been in love with someone else? Or think that a problem happening that make my husband busy? If your answer is not final answer you must Appeals for your relationships with your husband, In this regard, there is no love. Mother whose son comes home late, he never imagined his mother to have found another. Loving means giving and self-selected. It is necessary that we love her lover happy. Love is from the heart in all stages of life one can have with someone. Otherwise, there is no love But also pretend to love and being loved. If you love, you must keep a good watch of your love. Do you love alone is sufficient for sustain life? Love is a transmission way. Physical attractiveness and enjoyment of it soon disappears. More important is that you know you and your spouse and you of him. You must travel together. What happens when love goes away? Couples live together because of a sense of duty and continue to live without love. If you go back a couple of decades from one cared and it took the name of love .In fact, the relationship was careful. The mother of the child takes care as a responsibility and the child belongs to her. This relationship is similar successful couples. Those who take care of their married life together is more continuity. Thoughts like as <<I want to be free>> <<was wrong>> <<I'm not happy>> << I have to marry someone who was better>> and similar to thoughts that life will end in divorce. This kind of thinking that mean is << Self-centered>> what is the care and attention is <<Own >>, is not another. If so, I think that my wife belongs to me and to watch him. This idea leads to the perpetuation of life.

/J

 

 



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